DVD Surround system remote Options

[Mommy]

So I have a Sony DAV-BC150 5 disc dvd changer with surround sound system. I lost the remote in a move (or someone didn't give it to me when I asked). I love the thing, and I don't want to buy a new surround sound system for a damn remote. Anyways, I looked on Sony's parts thingy and a new remote would cost me $54.53 including shipping. I checked ebay, and it was the same price. I tried buying a cheap universal remote that worked with Sony DVD players, and it woldn't work (my guess is because it's also a surround system). Is there another universal remote that I can buy that might be cheaper than spending $55 or should I just throw down the cash. I haven't had the remote since June, and I'm really sick of not having it. I can't change sound settings or watch special features or anything. HELP! Find me a cheap way out of this one...

Post meant mostly for Impala since he seems to be the home theatre expert these days.

Thanks!