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Jun 25 2007, 12:46 PM
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Forsaken, did they legally disown you or they just don't talk to you anymore?
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Jun 25 2007, 12:52 PM
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![]() GORILLA FLUFFER Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
Forsaken, did they legally disown you or they just don't talk to you anymore? we ended up not speaking for almost a year. the only reason why i still talk to them now is because i was trying to recover something from what i had after i dumped jennifer. we only see each other about twice a year, and they live in plainview, just 40 min. away. but no, they didn't legally disown me, but they made it clear i wasn't welcome during that entire year. we still don't get along very well, and it's been near 4 years since i dumped jennifer -------------------- |
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Jun 25 2007, 01:02 PM
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If you were the parents would you SERIOUSLY consider MOVING cities because of this? Fuck that, I'm not going through the hassle of packing/unpacking finding a new job, etc... just because my daughter wants to hook up with her track coach.
Put her in a new school, lock her up, take away her cell phone: yeah that's cool. Inconveniencing me by making the entire family move: a little over the top. -------------------- ![]() |
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Jun 25 2007, 01:33 PM
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Neither one of them have a facebook or myspace... they're losers.
They deserve to be married so they can be losers together and live in a world completely devoid of all technology. |
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Jun 25 2007, 05:12 PM
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CHEE CHEE Group: Members Posts: 5,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: trapped in the hoezone layer Member No.: 39 |
He was very nerdy, but virtually everyone I've dated has been nerdy/geeky. No, he didn't ogle my boobs "a little too much". In fact, our relationship wasn't particularly sexual. Yes, we were intimate, but pretty infrequently and neither of us were pushing for more. I don't claim to have reached the height of maturity and intelligence at 18 -- that would be an insult to me now-- but I was (and still am) very mature and intelligent for my age. He was fairly intelligent, but a bit immature for his age, so it worked out well. My/his/our friends were all aware of the relationship and, while initially surprised, eventually thought that we made a pretty decent couple. Just because someone's older doesn't necessarily mean they're some perverted creep. you are making it sound like he wasnt able to date those his own age or even close to it. there is a problem with that on his end whether mental or emotional. to me thats definitely creepy. and letting it continue to the point of a 40yr old man preying on high school kids is too far. i can understand that lack of sexual intimacy. i wouldnt expect a person like that to understand, sustain or push any sexual contact. -------------------- Little monkeys making money
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Jun 25 2007, 06:36 PM
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true love implies the other person loves you back. you're trying to force me into a harder definition of love that i never claimed to have accomplished. if it were true love, i still would have been with the person, and thats the word play you are trying to trick me into. what i claimed is that i knew what love was. and i did because i experienced it. i awas one of those few lucky people to have loved the girl i lost my virginity too. candice and i have had a 12 year relationship that has been a mixture of best friend, lover, and intimacy. candice was about as close as i think one could get to being a soul mate without actually being one. we loved each other, and i have no doubt that if i had done things a little differently, it would be me and her getting married in 2 weeks instead of her and her new guy. she and i are still best friends and closer than most anyone i know. and i am proud to be able to attend her wedding to see her be happy. I would venture to say that, even though you think you're the model of maturity, your anecdote kinda makes my point. You thought you were in love with a 16 year old when you were 18, wanted to get married and your parents opposed. You didn't get married and that was the right thing to do, therefore your parents were right and you were stupid at 18. -------------------- LANCE IS PRO-CENSORSHIP! HE IS CENSORING MY LOVE FOR THE LORD!
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Jun 25 2007, 07:44 PM
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Group: Admin Posts: 6,906 Joined: 22-February 06 From: Austin Member No.: 9 |
you are making it sound like he wasnt able to date those his own age or even close to it. there is a problem with that on his end whether mental or emotional. to me thats definitely creepy. and letting it continue to the point of a 40yr old man preying on high school kids is too far. i can understand that lack of sexual intimacy. i wouldnt expect a person like that to understand, sustain or push any sexual contact. ... You're making a hell of a lot of asinine assumptions based on the bare bones story I gave you. There was nothing emotionally or mentally wrong with him and he wasn't a creep. He had plenty of friends ranging from college-age to his own age and older. I was friends with him for a year before we got involved. He wasn't sexually inept either, I just wanted to make the point that our relationship didn't revolve around sex. But I guess a guy dating a girl 12 years his junior HAS to be either a creepy, dirty pedophile or a creepy, emotionally/sexually crippled idiot, right? I would venture to say that, even though you think you're the model of maturity, your anecdote kinda makes my point. You thought you were in love with a 16 year old when you were 18, wanted to get married and your parents opposed. You didn't get married and that was the right thing to do, therefore your parents were right and you were stupid at 18. His point wasn't that he was a wise, all-knowing love guru when he was 18. His point was that lessons in love are best learned first-hand. -------------------- |
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Jun 25 2007, 07:56 PM
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His point wasn't that he was a wise, all-knowing love guru when he was 18. His point was that lessons in love are best learned first-hand. His point was that parents shouldn't get involved in their children's relationships. My point is that his parents were right and he was wrong, his case is a stretch because he was 18 at the time. Back on topic of this thread, the girl is 16 years old so her parents have every right to be be involved in her relationship with a man that's old enough to be her dad. Maybe it's just me, but I maintain that any man over the age of 30 (and probably way lower) that starts a relationship with a 14 year old girl is either a fucking pervert or a total loser, and either way they should be put in jail. When my future kids go to school I don't want to have to worry that they might start dating some perverted track coach. -------------------- LANCE IS PRO-CENSORSHIP! HE IS CENSORING MY LOVE FOR THE LORD!
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Jun 25 2007, 08:37 PM
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CHEE CHEE Group: Members Posts: 5,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: trapped in the hoezone layer Member No.: 39 |
... You're making a hell of a lot of asinine assumptions based on the bare bones story I gave you. There was nothing emotionally or mentally wrong with him and he wasn't a creep. He had plenty of friends ranging from college-age to his own age and older. I was friends with him for a year before we got involved. He wasn't sexually inept either, I just wanted to make the point that our relationship didn't revolve around sex. But I guess a guy dating a girl 12 years his junior HAS to be either a creepy, dirty pedophile or a creepy, emotionally/sexually crippled idiot, right? His point wasn't that he was a wise, all-knowing love guru when he was 18. His point was that lessons in love are best learned first-hand. admit it, hes a mouth breather -------------------- Little monkeys making money
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Jun 25 2007, 08:50 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
What's a mouth breather? Just someone that breathes through their mouth? If so, what's wrong with that?
-------------------- Spam? Isn't that something poor people eat?
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Jun 25 2007, 09:10 PM
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CHEE CHEE Group: Members Posts: 5,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: trapped in the hoezone layer Member No.: 39 |
a kind of socially awkward, nerdy person. the image is someone who has that gross raspy yet wet deep breathing. like on those phone calls you used to get at night.
-------------------- Little monkeys making money
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Jun 25 2007, 09:19 PM
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Group: Admin Posts: 6,906 Joined: 22-February 06 From: Austin Member No.: 9 |
admit it, hes a mouth breather *snerk* I've never dated anyone quite *that* socially retarded, unless you count my two-week crush/dating a guy who ended up being more interested in Counterstrike than boobies. His ass got dumped quick. In a nutshell, he was no better or worse that most guys I've dated. More mature than some, less mature than others. He was a good guy, though. We had fun, I learned more about myself as a result, it ended amiably, and we still meet up for the occasional lunch. -------------------- |
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Jun 25 2007, 09:23 PM
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![]() Group: Agents Posts: 4,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lu-bok Member No.: 41 |
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Jun 25 2007, 11:54 PM
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![]() Group: Members Posts: 1,761 Joined: 23-February 06 From: Lubbock/Dubai Member No.: 57 |
If you were the parents would you SERIOUSLY consider MOVING cities because of this? Fuck that, I'm not going through the hassle of packing/unpacking finding a new job, etc... just because my daughter wants to hook up with her track coach. Put her in a new school, lock her up, take away her cell phone: yeah that's cool. Inconveniencing me by making the entire family move: a little over the top. i dont see them moving towns, but you can sure as hell change what school she goes to. IF that doesnt work, diconnect her cell phone....and when she starts paying for it herself to talk to him....then ground the fucking slut -------------------- bored...so i did this
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Jun 26 2007, 06:13 AM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
a kind of socially awkward, nerdy person. the image is someone who has that gross raspy yet wet deep breathing. like on those phone calls you used to get at night. Keyword being used to. I turned the ringer off on my phone over a year ago. -------------------- Spam? Isn't that something poor people eat?
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