Fat man shamed to tears by Southwest Airlines Options

[theIncredibleEdi...]

I have almost entirley stopped compulsivley masturbating.

I allow my self an intensly sexual jackoff session once every 4 days now, down from 4-12 times a day previously.

Good lord...

[jonathan83]

vast majority of people can't/won't do that

exactly
it's because of laziness/not having will power.

[Dogmeat]

Good lord...

And that's just by hand, when I used to have an assortment of vibrators and creams it was up to 20 times a day .... I came dust once.

[jonathan83]

And that's just by hand, when I used to have an assortment of vibrators and creams it was up to 20 times a day .... I came dust once.

i can't tell if you're joking or not....

[chook]

is the connection that poor people can afford to be fat these days?

[hodge]

is the connection that poor people can afford to be fat these days?

cost of bad food is less then healthy food.

sux.

[Divergent Realit...]

And that's just by hand, when I used to have an assortment of vibrators and creams it was up to 20 times a day .... I came dust once.

i believe it.

he has an iron will to self pleasure.

and he is in vernal utah.

that place is scarier than the inside of that huge space worm in that star wars movie combined with the giger alien ship from alien

[FORSAKENR320]

alright there white flappy skin, I'm saying it takes time. Your dad is an individual case, vast majority of people can't/won't do that, we can't hold up society to most individual cases. If by that standard, then we'd all be millionaires. And no it's not because of the color of their skin, it's because of the way they think. Every situation is different.

All I'm saying when I first brought it up that is, it takes time. Things are not easy as one two three. It may appear easy to you or whoever to lift one self out of poverty, but it takes an incredible amount of determination to do so, and a lot of time as well. Things are not so simple that people are fat because of them selves, and people are poor because they don't want more.

There are social trends, trend shows that the poorer people are more likely to be overweight, though there are many factors involved here. The number of jobs they need to hold in order to make ends meet, this cut down on their cooking time, fast food and ready made foods are just easier and also more affordable. Another factor could be that poorer people are less informed than the wealthier people about nutrition and dietary habits. The reason why they are less informed could be because they don't have the time that figure this out, they don't have the resources to learn about this, or the education level to understand this. I don't know if it's safe to assume that everyone would like to eat healthier or would like to loose weight, but even if there were the case, you can't hold all things equal for wealthier people and poorer people. Because after all wealthier people have more resources at their expenditure, such as more information, more money, many times more time where they can take the time to think about the food they're putting into their bodies. I'm not saying that every rich person is skinny, or every poor person is fat, there will always be outliers and people who don't fit in, but usually that's more rare than not. And I'm not talking about a particular race here. I'm just talking about poor people here. I bring up this example because it is not so racially fueled, and people think better when they're not pissed off.

So coming back to the point of race here, I am not saying it's right to blame other people when you don't even try. But generally things are not that simple. There are many factors that could influence one's decisions and actions, and frankly I don't know what these factors are. Also it's not just black people who blame the "system", plenty of well educated white people blame the "system" for this problem as well.

you know, for such a long paragraph, you really didn't have anything to say. this entire post is nothing but a broad generalization blanket statement that can be swayed on both sides of the arguement. doesn't prove anything or add anything to the conversation, the only thing it provides is an excuse for you to look like you understand something.

people change themselves because they have the ambition to do so. it is not societies responsibility. i have no pity for someone who can't put forth the effort, wether it be ignorance, laziness, or any of your other excuses. i am not perfect, i am lazy. all of my problems result directly from my actions. not because of my upbringing, or my skin color or any other lame cop-out excuse. it's because of ME. if i want more, i have to grit it and bear it. if i can't hack it, i guess i'm destined to be a loser-pussy all my life. and who's fault is that? no ones but my own.

[Billy]

Christine made an excellent point with her slam on Aaron, and then Lang continued up with it and made another excellent point against Impala.

The thing is, Impala, I don't care what your stance on poverty is. I'm not going to argue it one way or another. But this is why I think you're stupid, literally stupid: Incredible hypocricy. I do not understand how YOU can make an excuse about one of your own short comings, yet previously slam another group of people for their shortcomings. I do not understand how YOU and accept that you have some disadvantage, but you cannot accept that others could also have a disadvantage. I do not understand, Impala, how you cannot see how wrong you are.

Aaron, Christine got you. You can post every excuse in the world why your situation is different from Impala's, who believes his situation is different from the impoverished. But the fact of the matter is, there is a lot of shit in our lives that is not within our control. And the root of the problem is the fact that we cannot change ourselves nearly as easily as everyone would like to think we can. Sure, it's easy for the professional fitness trainer to say "anyone can get in shape, I did it!". It's easy for the Engineer to say "Anyone can understand math, I did it!". It's easy for the high school cheerleader to say "Anyone can be popular, I did it!". It's easy for the billionaire to say "Anyone can be rich, I did it!". There are a million books out there that tell how just a few simple changes in your life and lead to a better one. But yet, have they ever really helped anyone? Has anyone ever really made a change in their life because they read some inspirational book or heard some inspirational encouragement from another techsans member that they couldn't have made otherwise on their own? Like all this time, all they needed in their life to lose weight was to hear from someone else that they're fat, and that it's so god damn easy to not be so fucking fat. You don't think every fucking day of their fucking life they don't wish to be someone else? Are you really so arrogant to think that just because it was easy for you, it's easy for everyone? Like you're some sort of human standard?

Yeah you are.

But what you aren't, is smart enough to realize you aren't right. And it isn't easy. It isn't easy for the poor to get out of poverty. But it's easy for someone who comes from a middle class family, raised on educated values, to look at the poor and say "I did it! Why can't you?". It isn't easy for the fat to get into shape. But it's real fucking easy for those out there raised on proper eating and good habits to look at fattie and say "wtf is wrong with you? Look at what you did to yourself!" It's not easy for someone ugly and socially inept around attractive women to suddenly get charisma and suave. But it sure as hell easy to point and laugh at those people who can't do it. Because a small easy change can fix everything... Because it's so damn easy.

If it were easy, everyone would do it.

[impala454]

Christine made an excellent point with her slam on Aaron, and then Lang continued up with it and made another excellent point against Impala.

The thing is, Impala, I don't care what your stance on poverty is. I'm not going to argue it one way or another. But this is why I think you're stupid, literally stupid: Incredible hypocricy. I do not understand how YOU can make an excuse about one of your own short comings, yet previously slam another group of people for their shortcomings. I do not understand how YOU and accept that you have some disadvantage, but you cannot accept that others could also have a disadvantage. I do not understand, Impala, how you cannot see how wrong you are

maybe before you call me stupid and chastise me you should read back through my posts and show me exactly where i did this.

hell i'll even make it easy for ya and quote myself from above:

i don't blame anyone but myself for being overweight, just like poor people have no one to blame but themselves for being poor.

I agree with you on the point of it not necessarily easy to make significant lifestyle changes (maybe because I made that point two days ago? ). but the blame is solely on the shoulders of the individual. i never thought or argued otherwise, and i'm not really sure what post of mine you read that made you think what you did to fire out at me like that.

[Billy]

You completely missed the point and I'm not surprised. I was hoping that by making your point, but against you instead, you would get it. But I see you are incapable. And that makes me sad.

[impala454]

you called me a hypocrite for saying something i didn't even say. wtf am i supposed to "get" from that?

[Dogmeat]

Christine made an excellent point with her slam on Aaron, and then Lang continued up with it and made another excellent point against Impala.

The thing is, Impala, I don't care what your stance on poverty is. I'm not going to argue it one way or another. But this is why I think you're stupid, literally stupid: Incredible hypocricy. I do not understand how YOU can make an excuse about one of your own short comings, yet previously slam another group of people for their shortcomings. I do not understand how YOU and accept that you have some disadvantage, but you cannot accept that others could also have a disadvantage. I do not understand, Impala, how you cannot see how wrong you are.

Aaron, Christine got you. You can post every excuse in the world why your situation is different from Impala's, who believes his situation is different from the impoverished. But the fact of the matter is, there is a lot of shit in our lives that is not within our control. And the root of the problem is the fact that we cannot change ourselves nearly as easily as everyone would like to think we can. Sure, it's easy for the professional fitness trainer to say "anyone can get in shape, I did it!". It's easy for the Engineer to say "Anyone can understand math, I did it!". It's easy for the high school cheerleader to say "Anyone can be popular, I did it!". It's easy for the billionaire to say "Anyone can be rich, I did it!". There are a million books out there that tell how just a few simple changes in your life and lead to a better one. But yet, have they ever really helped anyone? Has anyone ever really made a change in their life because they read some inspirational book or heard some inspirational encouragement from another techsans member that they couldn't have made otherwise on their own? Like all this time, all they needed in their life to lose weight was to hear from someone else that they're fat, and that it's so god damn easy to not be so fucking fat. You don't think every fucking day of their fucking life they don't wish to be someone else? Are you really so arrogant to think that just because it was easy for you, it's easy for everyone? Like you're some sort of human standard?

Yeah you are.

But what you aren't, is smart enough to realize you aren't right. And it isn't easy. It isn't easy for the poor to get out of poverty. But it's easy for someone who comes from a middle class family, raised on educated values, to look at the poor and say "I did it! Why can't you?". It isn't easy for the fat to get into shape. But it's real fucking easy for those out there raised on proper eating and good habits to look at fattie and say "wtf is wrong with you? Look at what you did to yourself!" It's not easy for someone ugly and socially inept around attractive women to suddenly get charisma and suave. But it sure as hell easy to point and laugh at those people who can't do it. Because a small easy change can fix everything... Because it's so damn easy.

If it were easy, everyone would do it.

I think you should try this... it would help you deal with your anger.

It's really good stuff, trust me.

[Billy]

Controversy!

[FORSAKENR320]

billy is having marriage angst



(i have nothing at all to base this on, but it sounds like a good thing to say at this time)