Childfree Options

[cupcake]

no groups start because the people are so absolutely insecure with themselves because someone else gave them a look, they have to stamp out a reason why the recieved the look and find others who also recieved the look at huddle up for support.

agreed

[impala454]

You most likely don't understand it the same way i don't understand why people watch american idol, or watch "Extra"... or other celebrity crap. People can try to exlpain it, but i still won't understand it lol.

but you don't start a group about it either

[cupcake]

people start a group about non-issues like this to attract attention so they can feel special when someone looks at them weird and they can be all "you just don't get it man" in a collective mode...when actually the person probably looked at them strangely because they didn't think it was anything worth forming a group about.

yawn

[impala454]

cupcake and i got the same wavelengths goin today i tell ya

[cupcake]

ew

lol

[impala454]

bitch you know what i mean

[THECHICKEN]

but you don't start a group about it either

Yeah they do start groups about liking american idol and crappy celebrity crap... even though i may not understand it.

[Spectatrix]

Even though I do want to have kids, I totally understand not wanting to. I mean, hell, kids can be fucking obnoxious! Even if they're yours and you love them to death, they still can be a pain in the ass. Plus it messes with your career in some way or another and you can't go out willy-nilly and so on and so forth.

[cupcake]

unless you're steven spielberg or some shit...you children are your only true legacy or mark that you were here.

I "get" not wanting to have them out of selfishness...but yeah...

[Testm0nkey]

statistically people with bad childhoods have kids with bad childhoods but a lot of other factors are included in that. i can understand someone who was raped and abused by a parent not wanting to have kids. thats probably a good thing if they arent "healed" as much as they can be.

itd be a terrible thing for someone who doesnt want kids to have kids. thats why america has so many unwanted and abused children

whats wrong with adopting impala? your extremely desirable genes not getting a chance? /sarcasm

lots of people i semi know talk about not wanting kids and mostly its because these people are extremely immature and not at a stable point in their life. reasons like sex decreases after having kids (can be totally opposite as the woman is probably more likely to want it) and having a tether that would keep you back from moving whenever you want or having to come home... ever

some people value career goals more than family. i cant fault them for that

[cupcake]

reasons like sex decreases after having kids (can be totally opposite as the woman is probably more likely to want it)

where do you get this notion from?

[impala454]

whats wrong with adopting impala? your extremely desirable genes not getting a chance? /sarcasm

i dont see anything wrong w/adoption at all, i just personally wouldn't want to.

[Testm0nkey]

where do you get this notion from?

women hit their peak STARTING in their 30's. and after having kids some women feel unattractive or just like a cow and want their partners to attend to their needs because nothing has actually changed. pregnant women are supposedly hugely horny (hormones which extend well past breast feeding)

how do you make your wife feel better after a day with the kids? sitting watching tv and have her yelling at you? no shes angry because shes not getting enough dick because men are stupid

women have just as high sexual drives as men do, sadly a lot of men still dont believe that

[impala454]

women just f'n want attention.

[Seeker]

women just f'n want attention.