 Coach, 40, Weds 16-Year-Old Student, in North Carolina |
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 Jun 26 2007, 07:48 AM
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  Group: Agents Posts: 4,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lu-bok Member No.: 41  |
QUOTE (JRockTTU @ Jun 25 2007, 07:36 PM)  I would venture to say that, even though you think you're the model of maturity, your anecdote kinda makes my point. You thought you were in love with a 16 year old when you were 18, wanted to get married and your parents opposed. You didn't get married and that was the right thing to do, therefore your parents were right and you were stupid at 18. here -------------------- 32-bit whore
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Jun 26 2007, 10:17 AM
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One of my friends in high school dated a guy who was in high mid 30's. Her parents disapproved, and I think most of her friends weren't big fans of it either. We grew apart after awhile, but as far as I know, she is okay now. I don't think anything really bad happened as a result of it, but she did delay going to college for a year, and I'm not sure if it was because of this guy. I don't understand why a 30 year old would want to date a hs girl, we have hung out a few times, and he didn't seem like such a bad guy, actually quite normal imo.
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Jun 26 2007, 04:37 PM
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 monogamous gays & stem cells Group: Members Posts: 3,789 Joined: 22-February 06 Member No.: 8 |
QUOTE (Inferia @ Jun 26 2007, 11:17 AM) I don't understand why a 30 year old would want to date a hs girl really? |
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Jun 26 2007, 04:55 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
She said date, not fornicate. I can agree with her sentiment, too. Most females that age are not exactly recognized for their emotional stability.
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Jun 26 2007, 05:02 PM
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If James stays in the teaching industry he will one day end up doing this. He already has the child molester look down.
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Jun 26 2007, 05:09 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
That's pretty fucked up :-\
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Jun 26 2007, 05:19 PM
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Haha, I'm just joking dude.
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Jun 26 2007, 07:40 PM
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QUOTE (James @ Jun 26 2007, 06:09 PM) That's pretty fucked up :-\ you´ve said/thought things much more fucked up than that. so it´s definitely plausible! 
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Jun 26 2007, 07:47 PM
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 GORILLA FLUFFER Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
QUOTE (JRockTTU @ Jun 25 2007, 08:56 PM) His point was that parents shouldn't get involved in their children's relationships. My point is that his parents were right and he was wrong, his case is a stretch because he was 18 at the time. if you read the other part of the story instead of just picking and choosing what helps your arguement more, you'd have read that my parents also interefered in my brothers relationship, and they were wrong. --------------------  QUOTE (Jessica @ May 7 2007, 01:15 PM) but yeehaw dammit. YEEHAW QUOTE (Dogmeat @ Jun 26 2008, 07:51 PM) ok once upon a time I jacked myself off retarded. Licking anuses, one kindergarten class at a time!! |
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Jun 26 2007, 08:00 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
QUOTE (jonathan83 @ Jun 26 2007, 08:40 PM) you´ve said/thought things much more fucked up than that. so it´s definitely plausible! Talking about skinning someone alive while giving them a blood transfusion to make it last is in a completely different league from these sickos. -------------------- Spam? Isn't that something poor people eat?
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Jun 27 2007, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE (FORSAKENR320 @ Jun 26 2007, 08:47 PM) if you read the other part of the story instead of just picking and choosing what helps your arguement more, you'd have read that my parents also interefered in my brothers relationship, and they were wrong. But you stated that they interfered with his relationship because of race, not age, so maybe they were misguided. I hold by my opinion that kids are too young to know what's best for them, and to get married, under 18. I don't even think 18 year olds know what they're doing, but that's the age that you get a whole bunch of responsibility. Your anecdote about you at 18 shows that you thought you were ready to marry this girl but you were wrong. I'm guessing by your story that your brother got married at 17? If so, how old is he now, 23 at the oldest? Why wouldn't he just wait a year until they were 18 so that he's out on his own? So like 6 years of marriage, still very young people, they've got plenty of time to change their minds about marriage. If they don't, then I'm glad for them, they are a part of the very small minority of people who get married young and made the right choice. -------------------- LANCE IS PRO-CENSORSHIP! HE IS CENSORING MY LOVE FOR THE LORD!
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Jun 27 2007, 01:12 PM
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GORILLA FLUFFER Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
QUOTE (JRockTTU @ Jun 27 2007, 11:27 AM) But you stated that they interfered with his relationship because of race, not age, so maybe they were misguided. I hold by my opinion that kids are too young to know what's best for them, and to get married, under 18. I don't even think 18 year olds know what they're doing, but that's the age that you get a whole bunch of responsibility. Your anecdote about you at 18 shows that you thought you were ready to marry this girl but you were wrong. I'm guessing by your story that your brother got married at 17? If so, how old is he now, 23 at the oldest? Why wouldn't he just wait a year until they were 18 so that he's out on his own? So like 6 years of marriage, still very young people, they've got plenty of time to change their minds about marriage. If they don't, then I'm glad for them, they are a part of the very small minority of people who get married young and made the right choice. you sound like the bitter old man who thinks that no one understands anything or is capable of handling anything simply because of their age. emotional maturity is earned. and you can't earn it when your parents are telling you who you can and cannot love. parents should stay out of it and let the child learn their mistakes on their own. any interferance by a parent will make the child more stubborn. actually managing to break the relationship before the child could learn the mistake would make the child despise the parent, and because no flaw was made apparent in the said love interest, the child will feel the parent denied them happiness. the only way around that is to be there for the child when the relationship does fall apart. -------------------- QUOTE (Jessica @ May 7 2007, 01:15 PM) but yeehaw dammit. YEEHAW QUOTE (Dogmeat @ Jun 26 2008, 07:51 PM) ok once upon a time I jacked myself off retarded. Licking anuses, one kindergarten class at a time!! |
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Jun 27 2007, 03:57 PM
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QUOTE (FORSAKENR320 @ Jun 27 2007, 02:12 PM) you sound like the bitter old man who thinks that no one understands anything or is capable of handling anything simply because of their age. emotional maturity is earned. and you can't earn it when your parents are telling you who you can and cannot love. parents should stay out of it and let the child learn their mistakes on their own. any interferance by a parent will make the child more stubborn. actually managing to break the relationship before the child could learn the mistake would make the child despise the parent, and because no flaw was made apparent in the said love interest, the child will feel the parent denied them happiness. the only way around that is to be there for the child when the relationship does fall apart. Yeah, because every parent wants to stand by and watch their child get divorced at age 17. -------------------- LANCE IS PRO-CENSORSHIP! HE IS CENSORING MY LOVE FOR THE LORD!
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Jun 27 2007, 04:17 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
I don't. I want to watch my child get divorced at 15 after she gets married at 12. I'm takin it back, way back!
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Jun 27 2007, 04:23 PM
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CHEE CHEE Group: Members Posts: 5,026 Joined: 23-February 06 From: trapped in the hoezone layer Member No.: 39 |
so wait... there are people here who say if they were in these parents situations they wouldnt just not like it they would perfectly allow it?
you are aware this man is most likely a rapist child molester right? one who was allowed to stay coaching in a school it is a parents OBLIGATION to care and protect their child. there is a big line thats not hard to miss between being a parent and letting your kids grow up and make their own mistakes. allowing them to be molested and learning from it is not acceptable. lets just all understand this started when she was 14. there is nothing in that guys actions that would make it seem hes responsible or mature enough to wait until she was of age obviously -------------------- Little monkeys making money
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