 Coach, 40, Weds 16-Year-Old Student, in North Carolina |
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| Coach, 40, Weds 16-Year-Old Student, in North Carolina |
 Jun 22 2007, 08:35 PM
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Parents are fucking retarded.... letting your 16yr old get married to a 40yr old. Father gets a baseball bat and tells the fucker that if he comes near the daughter he suffers. Cut off her cell phone, and take her car. Lock her windows and sleep outside her room.
If police wouldn't do anything, pack her up and move her ass across the country. She's 16, a child, and she doesn't have a clue about what she would want at that point in her life... thats what parents are supposed to be there for. -------------------- |
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Jun 23 2007, 08:35 AM
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 New son Donovan Charles Mummert born July 17, 2008 Group: Members Posts: 8,635 Joined: 22-February 06 From: Port Wentworth, GA Member No.: 15 |
I know if I started doing something like this, my parents would have set big boundaries to prevent it from continuing. If she was getting texts at 2 am, take her phone away. If she was visiting with him after school, take her to school right before it starts and pick her up right when its over. No after school sports...unless she wants to join a city league. Dont let her go out, but if she wants to invite friends over she can. Giving in was the worst thing these parents could have done. I would sacrifice my relationship with my child if it meant not letting them marry a sick fuck until they are of legal age to do it.
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Jun 23 2007, 08:48 AM
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Group: Admin Posts: 6,906 Joined: 22-February 06 From: Austin Member No.: 9 |
QUOTE (jwttu @ Jun 22 2007, 09:22 PM)  wow i didnt think this was legal, even with parental consent. i learn new things everyday It depends on the state. In North Carolina, the marriagable age is 18, 16 with parental consent. -------------------- |
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Jun 23 2007, 09:21 AM
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 Group: Members Posts: 1,761 Joined: 23-February 06 From: Lubbock/Dubai Member No.: 57 |
stupid, on both parts....parents tried, but not hard enough. If the child refused to talk to them, fuck her, lock her in her room.....take her phone, disconnect the internet, change schools, wtf, there are lots of things you could do
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Jun 23 2007, 09:58 AM
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 N O E S Group: Members Posts: 421 Joined: 23-February 06 From: Hieuston, TX Member No.: 42 |
parents will do a lot of crazy things in the name of love for their child. i've seen little rug rats running around with oversized puffy jackets and sneakers to get shot in. and you know no 10 yr old makes enough money to buy that crap. but cry enough and their parents will buy it for them. parents give their little shits "allowances" knowing full well spent it at mc donalds getting fat. if their child want to marry a dirty old fucker, then gosh, if they loved her enough they'd let her.
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Jun 23 2007, 11:14 AM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
QUOTE (Tygriss @ Jun 23 2007, 10:58 AM) parents will do a lot of crazy things in the name of love for their child. i've seen little rug rats running around with oversized puffy jackets and sneakers to get shot in. and you know no 10 yr old makes enough money to buy that crap. but cry enough and their parents will buy it for them. parents give their little shits "allowances" knowing full well spent it at mc donalds getting fat. if their child want to marry a dirty old fucker, then gosh, if they loved her enough they'd let her. Damn that love. I say we just do away with it altogether. -------------------- Spam? Isn't that something poor people eat?
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Jun 24 2007, 02:29 AM
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 Do they ignore parts of reality? Group: Moderators Posts: 2,935 Joined: 23-February 06 From: South Overton!!! Member No.: 46 |
QUOTE (Tygriss @ Jun 23 2007, 10:58 AM) parents will do a lot of crazy things in the name of love for their child. i've seen little rug rats running around with oversized puffy jackets and sneakers to get shot in. and you know no 10 yr old makes enough money to buy that crap. but cry enough and their parents will buy it for them. parents give their little shits "allowances" knowing full well spent it at mc donalds getting fat. if their child want to marry a dirty old fucker, then gosh, if they loved her enough they'd let her. No, if her parents loved her they would realize that she is SIXTEEN years old and that she does not have the right to make her own self-destructive decisions. Unfortunately, this girl was not fortunate enough to have parents who were willing to put down some boundaries. Love is not just about letting someone do whatever the fuck they want, it is also important to bitch slap someone when they are contemplating foolish choices. Plus her husband will leave her for a younger girl as soon as she gets "fat and ugly" (aka: 21). This post has been edited by Dr. Gonzo: Jun 24 2007, 02:30 AM -------------------- A psychotic world we live in. The madmen are in power. How long have we known this? Faced this? And--how many of us do know it? Perhaps if you know you are insane then you are not insane. Or you are becoming sane, finally. Waking up. I suppose only a few are aware of all this. Isolated persons here and there. But the broad masses... what do they think? All these hundreds of thousands in this city, here. Do they imagine that they live in a sane world? Or do they guess, glimpse, the truth...?
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Jun 24 2007, 10:14 AM
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Gonzo is right.... plus, 16 yr old snizz gets really old really quick
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Jun 24 2007, 11:41 AM
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 Oh baby bring me down  Group: Agents Posts: 4,115 Joined: 23-February 06 From: Way out yonder Member No.: 68 |
appropriate, Benny Mardon - Into the Night
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Jun 24 2007, 02:12 PM
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Corrupting the youth of America Group: Members Posts: 528 Joined: 12-May 06 From: Alice, TX Member No.: 176 |
just what those of us in education need....
another creepy fucker goin after kids. Those parents should be locked up....Parents are supposed to set boundries and do things to PROTECT their children from getting into these situations. I wonder if they even paid any attention to princess there until this happened. Im glad that I had parents to beat my ass when I did stupid shit and give me boundries. -------------------- Brandon....you're the reason I'm pro-choice.
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Jun 24 2007, 02:17 PM
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 GORILLA FLUFFER Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
it's a lose/lose situation. i had a situation similar to this with my ex-fiance. my family "put their foot down" and threatened to disown me if i didn't get rid of her. she was underage, but previously married, which means she was considered an adult in texas. i chose her over my family, they disowned me. (keep in mind that they had never met her, knew nothing of her, just that i moved her to lubbock to be with me) in the long run, it would have been better for me to have gotten rid of that whore, yes. but my family never would have been the same. i would have despised them, because to me, they would have "robbed me of my one true love" and i never would have found out that she was worthless and bad for me.
on the other side, my parents are also moderately racist. my little brother has a fiance that is hispanic. they didn't like that at all, but they didn't want to risk disowning their youngest child also. they threatened, and threw a fit for a long time, but eventually they got to know her and they actually like/respect/ and approve of her. the thing i'm trying to get at is that there are plenty of situations where a parents firm hand is needed to set a child straight. but there are situations where a parent has to sit back and allow the child to learn on their own. love is one of those situations. no one else can ever understand your love for another person. parents should not be allowed to meddle in relationships. how many times have you heard about the troublesome and bitchy mother-in-law? either this relationship will end in disaster and she'll learn from it, (like mine) or it will succeed and she will actually be happy. (like my brothers) either way, the parents cannot interfere without it ending badly for everyone. --------------------  QUOTE (Jessica @ May 7 2007, 01:15 PM) but yeehaw dammit. YEEHAW QUOTE (Dogmeat @ Jun 26 2008, 07:51 PM) ok once upon a time I jacked myself off retarded. Licking anuses, one kindergarten class at a time!! |
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Jun 24 2007, 02:31 PM
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Fool Group: Members Posts: 2,127 Joined: 23-February 06 From: LBB Member No.: 56 |
How old were you with your ex-fiance? How old is your little brother with his fiance? I doubt neither answer is 16.
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Jun 24 2007, 02:43 PM
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GORILLA FLUFFER Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
i was 18. my brother was 17. and it doesn't matter on the age in this situation. my parents did both situations. they did exactly what all of you want them to do. and they did what these parents did. niether situation helped matters by their interferance. love does not age discriminate. do any of you people know for a fact that they don't love each other and that this is a wrong decision? NO. all of you are just speculating on the situation. what if they DO live happily? is it right for the parents to deny her that happiness just because they "don't think it will last"? NO. PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO INTERFER WITH MATTERS CONCERNING LOVE. THEY KNOW NOHING OF THEIR FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER.
age does not bring wisdom, people. your parents are flawed, they make mistakes. -------------------- QUOTE (Jessica @ May 7 2007, 01:15 PM) but yeehaw dammit. YEEHAW QUOTE (Dogmeat @ Jun 26 2008, 07:51 PM) ok once upon a time I jacked myself off retarded. Licking anuses, one kindergarten class at a time!! |
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Jun 24 2007, 08:28 PM
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QUOTE (FORSAKENR320 @ Jun 24 2007, 03:43 PM) i was 18. my brother was 17. and it doesn't matter on the age in this situation. my parents did both situations. they did exactly what all of you want them to do. and they did what these parents did. niether situation helped matters by their interferance. love does not age discriminate. do any of you people know for a fact that they don't love each other and that this is a wrong decision? NO. all of you are just speculating on the situation. what if they DO live happily? is it right for the parents to deny her that happiness just because they "don't think it will last"? NO. PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO INTERFER WITH MATTERS CONCERNING LOVE. THEY KNOW NOHING OF THEIR FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. age does not bring wisdom, people. your parents are flawed, they make mistakes. Or everybody could realize that a 16 year old doesn't know what's best for herself at that age. Why can't they wait 2 more years and it won't be so bad. I mean, the guy is still a dirty fucking cradle robber, but they should wait until she's 18. -------------------- LANCE IS PRO-CENSORSHIP! HE IS CENSORING MY LOVE FOR THE LORD!
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Jun 24 2007, 10:09 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,302 Joined: 20-February 07 Member No.: 721 |
Oh its "love".... fuck that. I'd bash the guys head in if he touched my daughter, sue the school, and move her ass away. This is coming from the notion that the child is raised to respect her parents (like i was). Especially at 16 i don't care what the feeling the immature kid is having, im going to protect them from a 40 yr old child molestor. If it was a 22 yr old coach who just started at the school it might be a little bit different, but most likely no... be a parent. If the kid hates you for a couple years because you stopped them from making a huge mistake then so be it.
And yes, im sure its a huge mistake. No matter if they lived to be happy people with bunnies and fru frus its still a huge mistake that should be stopped. No person at that age can know what love is or isn't -------------------- |
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