Feminism ! YEAH! Options

[nickluto]

http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html

[chook]

no bueno!

[Spectatrix]

Hah, neato.

[Timbo]

MY KIND OF FEMINIST
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRoXxWK-ne4...tlin%20flanagan

Timbo

[moebary]

if a girl wanted to do that to me, I'd cut her fucking head off

[kcroxyoursox]

eh i dont like the idea, even it if means getting my way... if you have to threaten withholding sex to be treated right, then hes not worth it to begin with. plus, i wouldnt feel like he was really being so perfect and romantic and great if i knew it was just to expedite his own physical pleasure...

[nickluto]

if you have to threaten withholding sex to be treated right, then you are not worth it to begin with.

fify

[Spectatrix]

I can see doing this if the couple is into domination/submission play or lifestyle, but not so much normally. In that, denying the submissive party sex or masturbation is common and chastity belts are a good way to ensure that the submissive doesn't disobey the master/mistress.

Or if the guy is as compulsive and spineless about watching porn & masturbating and wants to stop (hrm, sounds like Dogmeat with WoW), this might be a nifty way to help him accomplish that.

This post has been edited by Spectatrix: Jun 12 2006, 11:44 PM

[Divergent Realit...]

I can see doing this if the couple is into domination/submission play or lifestyle, but not so much normally. In that, denying the submissive party sex or masturbation is common and chastity belts are a good way to ensure that the submissive doesn't disobey the master/mistress.

Or if the guy is as compulsive and spineless about watching porn & masturbating and wants to stop (hrm, sounds like Dogmeat with WoW), this might be a nifty way to help him accomplish that.

for some subs its more of a symbolic giving up of control. some have the ability to do waht is told in terms of orgasm control. if you have a 'fighter' then sure, make them walk around with a chastity belt. but generally those situations are agreed upon by both parties. its really less of the feminism and more 'safe and sane' Ds relationship.

[nickluto]

Or if the guy is as compulsive and spineless

yes. my guess is if any man lets a woman do this to him, he already has to sit down to pee.

[Spectatrix]

for some subs its more of a symbolic giving up of control. some have the ability to do waht is told in terms of orgasm control. if you have a 'fighter' then sure, make them walk around with a chastity belt. but generally those situations are agreed upon by both parties. its really less of the feminism and more 'safe and sane' Ds relationship.

Oh yeah, I know that in a D relationship, doing something like this would still be concensual, but that didn't come across in my last post.

[jonathan83]

yes. my guess is if any man lets a woman do this to him, he already has to sit down to pee.

ka-ching!

[rabble]

there are guys who would want this, didn't you read the Q&A?

"I've tried to get my girlfriend interested in keeping me locked up. Everytime I bring up the subject she shys away. She tells me she thinks its too weird and doesn't want to do it. Help!"

- Stephen, Sydney, Australia, Age 24

First of all, don't force the issue with her, it'll just make her feel more uncomfortable. She feels this way because she hasn't been exposed to the idea before and thinks it to be and odd and weird request from you. What can you do? Gently encourage her to read this guide. Also, show her some of the variety of male chastity resources on the net. Once she sees just how many thousands of couples are using male chastity devices as a way to enhance their relationships, she might change her mind. Explain to her that she has nothing to lose by giving it a try and ask if she would be willing to try for a trial period (one month might be a good duration).

A recent article in the New York Times (March 4 , 2000 edition - see website) stated that male chastity device sales have shot up dramatically over the last two years. In 1999, an estimated half million male chastity devices were sold. Clearly, the idea is catching on.

Good luck!

[chook]

I like how you don't force it on her!