Advice please.... Options

[theIncredibleEdi...]

What do you do when two of your close friends do not like your boyfriend?

The guy I am dating says hes never even met them before, but yet they are trashing him....do I go to them and tell them to quit their bullshit?

[moebary]

not sure

just make sure you think with your head, not your dick

[Dogmeat]

Well, apparently they're jellous you're fucking his anus and not them.

I would describe in as great of detail to them as humanly possible all the hotsexual homosex you two have been having complete with a description of the climaxes and the noises made by both parties during this event.

You can then promptly tell them that he makes you giggle more than they do and their presense isn't required by you in life in order to be gaysexually fulfilled.

And to put the icing on the cake, tell them all about how good at cuddeling he is.

[Oasis]

Tell them to quit their bullshit.

If an acquaintance doesn't like them, who cares. You're closer to your s/o than you are to them so who gives a shit about their opinion

If it's a close friend whose opinion you value, ask why they dislike them, and expect a valid reason

Why the hell are you friends with assholes who trash your boyfriend before even meeting him anyway? That isn't cool

[Mommy]

So are you positive they don't know him? I mean, the gay community seems to be very close knit, like all gay people in a city know each other. Maybe they heard something from someone else about him? Or did you lean on them when times were rough with him? These are all questions you need to ask. If they truly don't know him or anything about him, then ignore them. They just have penis envy.

[jonathan83]

they had an orgy before and he hogged all the semen

[Jim]

So are you positive they don't know him? I mean, the gay community seems to be very close knit, like all gay people in a city know each other. Maybe they heard something from someone else about him? Or did you lean on them when times were rough with him? These are all questions you need to ask. If they truly don't know him or anything about him, then ignore them. They just have penis envy.

This. If they're really good friends, they have a reason for doing what they be doing.

[theIncredibleEdi...]

So are you positive they don't know him? I mean, the gay community seems to be very close knit, like all gay people in a city know each other. Maybe they heard something from someone else about him? Or did you lean on them when times were rough with him? These are all questions you need to ask. If they truly don't know him or anything about him, then ignore them. They just have penis envy.

That's the thing...he says he doesnt know one at all, and the other he randomly met in a grocery store or something.
They say that he made a pass at one and when he was rejected he went nuts. My issue with my friends is (they're a couple) that the one whom he hasn't met has a tendency to embellish things for the sake of making it all dramatic. So, im trying to take what they say with a grain of salt.


Well, My roommate is throwing a party this weekend at our place, and invited him....i passed on the invitation with the knowledge that the two others would be there. He said he would go with me, and that hopefully they would take the opportunity to get to know him better...so I think he's kinda being the bigger man right now.

[Mommy]

That's the thing...he says he doesnt know one at all, and the other he randomly met in a grocery store or something.
They say that he made a pass at one and when he was rejected he went nuts. My issue with my friends is (they're a couple) that the one whom he hasn't met has a tendency to embellish things for the sake of making it all dramatic. So, im trying to take what they say with a grain of salt.


Well, My roommate is throwing a party this weekend at our place, and invited him....i passed on the invitation with the knowledge that the two others would be there. He said he would go with me, and that hopefully they would take the opportunity to get to know him better...so I think he's kinda being the bigger man right now.

yeah, I mean, the thing is, if someone is bad for you, you are going to know it deep down. You just may ignore your instincts. If you don't have a bad feeling about him, then just ignore your friends. If your friends are only affirming that little voice inside your head, though, then maybe you should listen up. Sounds more like the guy just misunderstood your guy's intentions at the grocery store.

[Seeker]

Before you met your current boyfriend I bet he hooked up with one of your friends (while he was together with your other friend). That friend doesn't want the real story to get out!

[chook]

they had an orgy before and he hogged all the semen

Guess its true, all the gay people know what happened.

[jonathan83]

Before you met your current boyfriend I bet he hooked up with one of your friends (while he was together with your other friend). That friend doesn't want the real story to get out!

hmm that does sound fishy! maybe lance is onto something here.

[theIncredibleEdi...]

Entirely possible....the gay community in Houston, especially with the bears is small. You cant walk a step without bumping into someone you know or slept with.

I am kinda gonna go with what Jessica says....I get no bad feelings about him, and hes honestly done a lot to prove that hes not gonna cheat, so I will tell my friends to calm the fuck down.