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post Aug 29 2007, 10:46 AM
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So my friend joined this facebook group called Childfree. I was curious as to what it is, so I looked it up on wikipedia. I know that wikipedia is not exactly an accurate source, but I got a gist of what it is. Bascially childfree differs from childless in that for people who are childless wish to have child(ren), but can't have it for whatever reason it may be. Childfree is an active choice of not having child(ren) and never wanting it ever. And they listed a few reasons why people choose to be childfree, some of which includes not liking kids, having a traumatic childhood, not like how people change after they have kids, because of work, the world is over populated, etc. The only one I can understand is the occupation one, but then I feel like you still want kids, but can't have it because of your career. I'm trying to keep an open minded about it, but most of the reasons people have listed seem rather selfish, and borderline stupid. But I guess not liking kids is as good as any reason for not having kids. I don't know, anyone here who wish to be childfree or know anyone is?


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post Aug 29 2007, 02:43 PM
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perhaps it's not so much discrimination, but social stigma. People who don't have kids get an omg, what's wrong with you type of look when they say it. That's how groups start.


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post Aug 29 2007, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE (Inferia @ Aug 29 2007, 03:43 PM) *
perhaps it's not so much discrimination, but social stigma. People who don't have kids get an omg, what's wrong with you type of look when they say it. That's how groups start.

no groups start because the people are so absolutely insecure with themselves because someone else gave them a look, they have to stamp out a reason why the recieved the look and find others who also recieved the look at huddle up for support.
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post Aug 29 2007, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 02:50 PM) *
no groups start because the people are so absolutely insecure with themselves because someone else gave them a look, they have to stamp out a reason why the recieved the look and find others who also recieved the look at huddle up for support.

Well I don't know. People are not exactly open minded to new things. If it's not the norm, then people look at them funny, and those funny looking people like to start groups. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it's not so weird that these people started the group, it's the concept behind childfree that I don't understand.


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- Inferia   Childfree   Aug 29 2007, 10:46 AM
- - 1up   i'm glad your friend is childfree, that means ...   Aug 29 2007, 10:58 AM
- - impala454   yeah this reason is really dumb: QUOTE having a tr...   Aug 29 2007, 11:27 AM
|- - pysex   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 12:27 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 11:34 AM
- - impala454   oh naw... just sayin in the case that for some rea...   Aug 29 2007, 11:38 AM
- - Fedor   What the hell is the point of this? If you don...   Aug 29 2007, 11:39 AM
|- - impala454   QUOTE (Fedor @ Aug 29 2007, 12:39 PM) Wha...   Aug 29 2007, 11:59 AM
- - 1up   impala is still trying to figure out how to have k...   Aug 29 2007, 11:40 AM
|- - impala454   QUOTE (1up @ Aug 29 2007, 12:40 PM) impal...   Aug 29 2007, 12:02 PM
- - Hartmann   I was reading a report this morning on childbirth ...   Aug 29 2007, 11:40 AM
|- - impala454   QUOTE (Hartmann @ Aug 29 2007, 12:40 PM) ...   Aug 29 2007, 12:01 PM
- - Spectatrix   I know folks who don't want to have kids, but ...   Aug 29 2007, 12:46 PM
- - cupcake   childfree...labels...but whatever selfish desire y...   Aug 29 2007, 01:25 PM
- - kschristia   Lance and I are going to have at least a dozen bab...   Aug 29 2007, 01:34 PM
|- - 1up   QUOTE (kschristia @ Aug 29 2007, 02:34 PM...   Aug 29 2007, 01:42 PM
- - THECHICKEN   Have a friend of the family who had a traumatic ch...   Aug 29 2007, 01:45 PM
- - impala454   well i guess i wonder why a person would assume th...   Aug 29 2007, 02:00 PM
|- - THECHICKEN   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 03:00 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 02:09 PM
||- - impala454   QUOTE (THECHICKEN @ Aug 29 2007, 03:09 PM...   Aug 29 2007, 02:21 PM
|- - cupcake   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 03:00 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 02:18 PM
- - Fedor   QUOTE (cupcake @ Aug 29 2007, 01:25 PM) c...   Aug 29 2007, 02:07 PM
- - cupcake   not particularly, but you know best!   Aug 29 2007, 02:10 PM
- - Inferia   Well, the people in the group were saying people g...   Aug 29 2007, 02:34 PM
|- - cupcake   QUOTE (Inferia @ Aug 29 2007, 03:34 PM) M...   Aug 29 2007, 02:43 PM
- - cupcake   I think they are just attention whores. no one rea...   Aug 29 2007, 02:40 PM
- - impala454   well it would be kinda dumb to discrimminate again...   Aug 29 2007, 02:40 PM
- - Inferia   perhaps it's not so much discrimination, but s...   Aug 29 2007, 02:43 PM
|- - impala454   QUOTE (Inferia @ Aug 29 2007, 03:43 PM) p...   Aug 29 2007, 02:50 PM
|- - Inferia   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 02:50 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 02:54 PM
||- - THECHICKEN   QUOTE (Inferia @ Aug 29 2007, 03:54 PM) W...   Aug 29 2007, 02:57 PM
||- - impala454   QUOTE (THECHICKEN @ Aug 29 2007, 03:57 PM...   Aug 29 2007, 03:05 PM
||- - THECHICKEN   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 04:05 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 03:26 PM
|- - cupcake   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 03:50 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 02:58 PM
- - cupcake   people start a group about non-issues like this to...   Aug 29 2007, 03:06 PM
- - impala454   cupcake and i got the same wavelengths goin today ...   Aug 29 2007, 03:09 PM
- - cupcake   ew lol   Aug 29 2007, 03:17 PM
- - impala454   bitch you know what i mean   Aug 29 2007, 03:19 PM
- - Spectatrix   Even though I do want to have kids, I totally unde...   Aug 29 2007, 03:44 PM
- - cupcake   unless you're steven spielberg or some shit......   Aug 29 2007, 03:45 PM
- - Testm0nkey   statistically people with bad childhoods have kids...   Aug 29 2007, 03:55 PM
|- - impala454   QUOTE (Testm0nkey @ Aug 29 2007, 04:55 PM...   Aug 29 2007, 04:11 PM
- - cupcake   QUOTE reasons like sex decreases after having kids...   Aug 29 2007, 04:04 PM
|- - Testm0nkey   QUOTE (cupcake @ Aug 29 2007, 05:04 PM) w...   Aug 29 2007, 04:22 PM
- - impala454   women just f'n want attention.   Aug 29 2007, 09:15 PM
- - 1up   QUOTE (impala454 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:15 PM)...   Aug 29 2007, 09:16 PM


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