 What should I say... |
| What should I say... |
 Jun 8 2007, 05:29 PM
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So one of my good friends just found out her Mom has cancer. This is the closest that anyone I know has had it, and I was wondering if anyone knows the best thing to say/do (because, "I'm so sorry" can only go so far.)
This is all new to me, so I was just seeing if anyone had any good advice. --------------------  |
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Jun 8 2007, 05:37 PM
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 GORILLA FLUFFER  Group: Agents Posts: 7,711 Joined: 23-February 06 From: lubbock Member No.: 50 |
be strong, be confident, BE THERE FOR HER AND LISTEN. you have to be the rock of stability while her world is turned upside down. but be her friend. talk to her on the issues, but don't let her change the way she lives her life because of it. act normal basically. because if you let her turn it into a huge drastic experience in her mind, it will just cause her to freak out more.
(btw, my girlfriend lauren just got through with her cancer. found it in december, 3 surgerys later, and the doctor says she is cancer free now.) --------------------  QUOTE (Jessica @ May 7 2007, 01:15 PM)  but yeehaw dammit. YEEHAW QUOTE (Dogmeat @ Jun 26 2008, 07:51 PM) ok once upon a time I jacked myself off retarded. Licking anuses, one kindergarten class at a time!! |
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blaarg What should I say... Jun 8 2007, 05:29 PM
jwttu ya just be there for them and keep them occupied, ... Jun 8 2007, 05:48 PM blaarg those things sound good.
Is there anything to do i... Jun 8 2007, 05:52 PM FORSAKENR320 she's going to mull over it no matter what. d... Jun 8 2007, 08:37 PM James JYFIHP to help her forget about it?
Seriously tho... Jun 9 2007, 06:23 AM
pysex QUOTE (James @ Jun 9 2007, 07:23 AM) JYFI... Jun 9 2007, 01:01 PM chook Take her someplace to get away from the situation ... Jun 9 2007, 01:33 PM jonathan83 QUOTE (chook @ Jun 9 2007, 02:33 PM) Take... Jun 9 2007, 03:34 PM Testm0nkey So shes acting like her moms dead already?
Seri... Jun 9 2007, 03:54 PM pysex QUOTE (Testm0nkey @ Jun 9 2007, 04:54 PM)... Jun 9 2007, 05:44 PM Junsui QUOTE (Testm0nkey @ Jun 9 2007, 04:54 PM)... Jun 10 2007, 09:36 AM psidancer QUOTE (jonathan83 @ Jun 9 2007, 04:34 PM)... Jun 9 2007, 04:55 PM griseyeux QUOTE (pysex @ Jun 9 2007, 06:44 PM) Yeah... Jun 9 2007, 05:51 PM pysex QUOTE (griseyeux @ Jun 9 2007, 06:51 PM) ... Jun 9 2007, 06:25 PM Divergent Reality get her a gift card to wig shop Jun 9 2007, 05:54 PM Testm0nkey if hes sweating over simply what to say and lookin... Jun 10 2007, 11:53 AM Junsui QUOTE (Testm0nkey @ Jun 10 2007, 12:53 PM... Jun 10 2007, 06:50 PM pebkac QUOTE (Junsui @ Jun 10 2007, 07:50 PM) Ah... Jun 10 2007, 09:52 PM James Why can't it be Courjas?? Jun 10 2007, 12:47 PM Jessica A super close friend of mine had her mom pass away... Jun 11 2007, 08:47 AM blaarg Thanks guys for the tips.
Took her out yesterday j... Jun 11 2007, 09:17 AM pysex QUOTE (blaarg @ Jun 11 2007, 10:17 AM) Th... Jun 11 2007, 11:53 AM kendra You don't always have to know the right things... Jun 11 2007, 09:40 PM |
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