valentines day Options

[Oasis]

If I go to a nice restaurant (Truluck's or something similar) on valentines, how early do I need to make a reservation?

[Testm0nkey]

then dont go out to eat

again where are you people getting these quotes "hey honey heres flowers. now lets do it" thats not what people on v-day think or feel. as least they arent supposed to be like that!

when youve got two adults who work busy jobs or especially once they have a family, romantic time together will slip if you dont think so you need to get some pre-martial counseling so you know what to expect! if you are someone that is mushy gushy all the time then why would you choose not to be so on valentines day? id think itd just be like weeeee

[Hartmann]

when youve got two adults who work busy jobs or especially once they have a family, romantic time together will slip if you dont think so you need to get some pre-martial counseling so you know what to expect! if you are someone that is mushy gushy all the time then why would you choose not to be so on valentines day? id think itd just be like weeeee

I don't need pre-marital counseling because I think everyday is going to be just la-di-da, as that's the exact opposite of what I think is going to happen. Life is stressful. She works with annoying brats all day and I deal with people who have too much money.

But I'm not mushy all the time either. I just don't mind going out of my way to make her day a little better. I see my job as the man in a marriage as the person who does his best to build up the wife. Even when life is tough for either of us and even if she's having a bad day and doesn't treat me perfectly, my life is devoted to building her up.