valentines day Options

[Oasis]

If I go to a nice restaurant (Truluck's or something similar) on valentines, how early do I need to make a reservation?

[Testm0nkey]

i think its cute. making things uber romantic and special is never a bad thing. if you are with someone that treats you like a sibling except on valentines day than yeah maybe theres a problem. with you because you are still dating them!

i used to be HARDCORE against things like this. i was the most masculine man id make all you men cry like little pansies. and i actually did do that with men as i stomped on their souls and ate them. then i got into a relationship thats practically perfect with a guy that is. and now im like a little cute puppy. so i think its about finding that person that makes you want to go the extra mile

edit: but i have a question. for people who dont think it ought to be made a deal over, would you then be fine with your SO just disappearing for that night or going out with some friends without addressing it to you first?

[Hartmann]

edit: but i have a question. for people who dont think it ought to be made a deal over, would you then be fine with your SO just disappearing for that night or going out with some friends without addressing it to you first?

Since there is no expectation of us doing anything on Valentine's night, yeah, I'd be fine with it.

I make it a point to buy my girlfriend flowers on random days, cook dinner for her when I know she's going to be late, and set aside time to spend with her and her alone (no tv, no friends, no distractions). Since I know this is the woman I want to marry it's important to me to show love even when none is expected or called for, whether that's washing dishes or giving her feet a massage.

That's just me though...